playing with myself

There is a habit that I think that most men, if not all, develop when we’re young and just can’t seem to give up throughout our life. I will give you three guesses but you will probably only need one...it’s playing with ourselves.

Playing with ourselves starts when we’re boys when we discover that touching and holding and playing with our little penises was not only fun but it felt good. I’m sure I’m like most men when I say that I love my dick. I like playing with it when it’s soft, when it’s hard and every time in between. I’m always aware of my cock and how good it feels to have one. I think we as men find a lot of different ways we can play with ourselves not only with the intent of turning ourselves on, but because it’s so much fun.

I think that I will probably be identified as being obsessed with my cock. I don’t give a fuck. I like the fact that I have one.

Anyway, the way that many men play with themselves vary. It can be anything from an innocent touch that sends a tingle through our bodies to intentional flopping, slapping and stroking. I don’t think that intentional play always leads to a sexual atmosphere, but even if it does it’s all good.

Being a freeballer, I find that I like feeling my penis flop around in my jeans or my shorts or my sweats. I like the way my dick bounces against my thighs and my balls dangle around and stick to the side of my legs. And when that happens, I like being in public and having a guy watch me as I reach down and pull things together, so to speak. I like when I put my hands in my pockets and feel my cock rubbing against my fingers inside of the fabric. Sometimes when I’m home and going to the bathroom, I like to look in the mirror and see if I have a noticable outline in the crotch of my jeans. Walking down stairs is another way of feeling my dick flop around. Or when I sit down and see the obvious bulge between my legs.

I’m sure there are other ways that men play with themselves that makes it fun being a man. Watching television and reaching down into your pants or absent-mindedly bouncing your penis around in your hands as you go about a task or two or maybe even just kicking back and fooling around with yourself.

I seem to be playing with myself all day, every day. It’s fun, it keeps the day moving and it does make for good masturbation! I think I even play around with myself at night while I’m sleeping. Well, I’ve caught myself gripping or stroking my cock sometimes when I wake up during the night.

Whether it’s physical or mental, I think that men just can’t help playing with themselves. It’s just a natural thing and probably the most fun we can have without taking out our wallets.

This kind of takes me back to something I did a few years ago. I had come across this porn video called something like The Joy of Male Masturbation (i can’t seem to find the video anywhere these days), and it was a collection of videos of porn stars talking about masturbation before getting naked and jerking off. I rented the video and put it into the player and went about some indoor tasks such as preparing dinner, paying my bills, checking my e-mail, etc. all the while listening to these guys talk about masturbating and listening to them as they stroked and unload. Once I was done with my tasks, there was one scene left on the tape. I sat down and watched it while slightly turned on from all of the masturbation talk and sounds floating through my apartment all of that evening. That was a form of playing with myself. It was fun. It was something new. And it lead to some really good jacking off later on that night!!